January is the time many of us make resolutions and set goals – career goals, personal goals, health goals…
If you’re anything like me the problem is by the end of January motivation has dropped and resolutions have fallen by the wayside. This makes you start the year feeling bad about yourself. And with this sense of failure, the inner critic starts a party in your head.
If resolutions haven’t worked for you in the past why not try a new approach?
Set Intentions instead.
They’re authentic, attainable and more meaningful than resolutions.
Intentions don’t set you up to fail – they give you permission to make change slowly. ✨
This allows you to be more consistent and kinder to yourself when relapses happen (which they will).
Resolutions create a sense of lack – you are not enough. They heighten awareness of imperfections. They make you feel bad about yourself. This makes it incredibly difficult to maintain positivity around your resolution.
For instance, the resolution ‘I want to start a new hobby’ puts pressure on you to question what you’re good at, find the right hobby and persevere – not to mention finding the time to fit it in. That’s pressure that doesn’t serve you well.
Instead, consider the intention ‘I want more creativity in my life’. Immediately it offers up opportunities. It’s open and rather than charged with obligation it has a sense of ease and invitation to it. You can do as much or as little as you’re able without fear of failure or self-recrimination.
Instead of, ‘I want to eat less junk food’ say ‘I want to feel more healthy and energetic’. Identifying the feeling you want to achieve focuses your body, mind and spirit. (I can help you achieve this, if you let me.)
So stop the resolutions, don’t do it to yourself.
Let me help you set intentions for the new year as you start you on your path to empowerment and fulfillment of your true potential.
In my previous blogs, we looked at ‘Word Of The Year’, where we connected a word with an essential Oil. Download the chart if you haven’t yet.
Mine is strength for 2023.
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- For the incredible business plans to serve you better.
- In my physical body to be healthy, productive ,and full of vitality, building my resilience to any external forces that may come my way.
- To stay committed to my personal intentions, including my daily habits that are resourceful and provide me with positive outcomes.
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Now, it’s your turn. Take action and download the PDF.
After establishing your Word of the Year — a theme that overarches all your intentions — we will now sit down and write your own intentions for 2023.
- SPACE. Find a quiet safe place where you can reflect, assess and connect to your intuition.
- DIFFUSE. Use any of the following essential Oils to support you in establishing your 3 intentions.
- Sweet Orange (Citrus aurantium) — for creativity
- Frankincense (Boswellia carterii) — To access your insightfulness and inner wisdom
- Ylang Ylang (Cananga odorata) — for envisioning and celebrating your wonderful life
- Pine (Pinus sylvestris ) — allowing you to open your mind to possibilities
- Sandalwood (Santalum spicatum) — providing a strong foundation to create from
- BREATHE. Take 5 deep slow breaths, breathing in the divine aromas and to quieten the noise, connecting mind and body. Some areas to consider are:
A career/business intention
A personal intention
A health intention
A spiritual intention - WRITE. Ask what you really want for 2023 for yourself. Where do you want to be by the end of the year? How do you want your life to look like? Then write 3 intentions and be as concise and clear as possible. Later you can add detailed steps if you want to really turn them into doable plans of action.
Hit reply and share your chosen word of the Year & 3 intentions .
I’d love to read them and hear back from you if you have any questions.
Let’s work together on your Word for the Year and intentions.
If you need help clarifying these for yourself lets sort it out with my January Special Consultation
After establishing your Word of the Year — a theme that overarches all your intentions — we will now sit down and write your own intentions for 2023.
My Intentions for 2023 — a stunning way to support and inspire you to bring about the things you want from this year. From your 60 minute consultation with me:
- Explore and gain clarity around your Word of the Year & Intentions aligning them with how you want to feel in 2023
- Understand the ‘how’ of what you want to feel and the ‘why’ behind it. (This will solidify your intentions into your subconscious level making them even more powerful.)
- Select 3 Essential Oils that will become your unique Essential Oil Scent Code which embody your intentions every time you use it.
- Enjoy a love note from me to that guides you through your personal Year number and essential Oil Essential Oil Scent Code.